WELCOME NEWCOMERS
"There is a Solution" Recovery Group of Alcoholics Anonymous meets in Nowra NSW Australia
Am I an alcoholic?
If you repeatedly drink more than you intend or want to, if you get into trouble, or if you have memory lapses when you drink, you may be an alcoholic. Only you can decide.No one in AA will tell you whether you are or not.
What can I do if I'm worried about my drinking?
Seek help. Alcoholics Anonymous can help.
What is Alcoholics Anonymous?
We are a Fellowship of men and women who have lost the ability to control our drinking and have found ourselves in various kinds of trouble as a result of drinking. We attempt, most of us successfully—to create a satisfying way of life without alcohol.For this we find we need the help and support of other alcoholics in A.A.
If I go to an A.A. meeting, does that commit me to anything?
No. A.A. does not keep membership files, or attendance records. You do not have to reveal anything about yourself. No one will bother you if you don’t want to come back.
What happens if I meet people I know?
They will be there for the same reason you are there. They will not disclose your identity to outsiders. At A.A. you retain as much anonymity as you wish.That is one of the reasons we call ourselves Alcoholics Anonymous.
What happens at an A.A. meeting?
An A.A. meeting may take one of several forms, but at any meeting you will find alcoholics talking about what drinking did to their lives and personalities, what actions they took to help themselves, and how they are living their lives today.
How can this help me with my drinking problem?
We in A.A. know what it is like to be addicted to alcohol, and to be unable to keep promises made to others and ourselves that we will stop drinking. We are not professional therapists. Our only qualification for helping others to recover from alcoholism is that we have stopped drinking ourselves, but problem drinkers coming to us know that recovery is possible because they see people who have done it.
Why do A.A.s keep on going to meetings after they are cured?
We in A.A. believe there is no such thing as a cure for alcoholism. We can never return to normal drinking, and our ability to stay away from alcohol depends on maintaining our physical, mental, and spiritual health. This we can achieve by going to meetings regularly and putting into practice what we learn there. In addition, we find it helps us to stay sober if we help other alcoholics.
How do I join A.A.?
You are an A.A. member if and when you say so. The only requirement for A.A. membership is a desire to stop drinking, and many of us were not very wholehearted about that when we first approached A.A.
How much does A.A. membership cost?
There are no dues or fees for A.A. membership. An A.A. group will usually have a collection during the meeting to cover expenses, such as rent, coffee, etc., and to this all members are free to contribute as much or as little as they wish.
Is A.A. a religious organization?
No. Nor is it allied with any religious organization.
There’s a lot of talk about God, though, isn’t there?
The majority of A.A. members believe that we have found the solution to our drinking problem not through individual willpower, but through a power greater than ourselves. However, everyone defines this power as he or she wishes. Many people call it God, others think it is the A.A. group, still others don’t believe in it at all. There is room in A.A. for people of all shades of belief and nonbelief.
Can I bring my family to an A.A. meeting?
Family members or close friends are welcome at “Open” A.A. meetings.Discuss this with your local contact.
What advice do you give new members?
In our experience, the people who recover in A.A. are those who:
(a) stay away from the first drink;(b) attend A.A. meetings regularly;(c) seek out the people in A.A. who have successfully stayed sober for some time;(d) try to put into practice the A.A. program of recovery;(e) obtain and study the Big Book, Alcoholics Anonymous.
Reprinted from (A Newcomer Asks) With permission AA World Services Inc.
Get a Sponsor
Some members will tell you they got sober without having the support of a sponsor; that may be so, but experience has shown that you will have a better chance with a sponsor than without. As you progress in sobriety you will probably find that your sponsor plays a vital part in your program of recovery. Your sponsor will listen to you and offer suggestions; will tell you what worked for him or her; point out trouble spots and help you decide what to do about them. Your sponsor will help you and guide you along the path of recovery, while leaving the decisions up to you. Sponsors can't solve all your problems, but they can help you face them with honesty and courage. They can help you discover how to deal with them by adopting the philosophy contained in our Twelve Step program. You can count on sponsors to do their part and encourage you to do yours.
Reprinted from (Making a start in Alcoholics Anonymous A guide for the Beginner) With permission of AA World Services Inc.
ABOVE ALL DO IT ONE DAY AT A TIME
With each passing day of our lives, may every one of us sense more deeply the inner meaning of AA's simple prayer:
"God grant us the Serenity to accept the things we cannot change;
Courage to change the things we can;
and Wisdom to know the difference."
Reprinted from (Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions Pg 125) With permission of AA World Services Inc.